SAVIN’ IT FOR HUBBY
Happiness is conditional, based on whether your circumstances and surroundings are working in your favor or in a way that you believe is good for you.
But joy is a choice! You can have joy in the midst of pain and flat out chaos. You can have joy in circumstances where things aren’t going the way you’d hoped and especially when God says no. There’s joy in knowing that God’s “no” means something. It could mean protection, a lesson, of “I have something much better for you”.
Today, I’m choosing joy, the joy of the Lord which is my strength. I hope you choose the same!
Be blessed & encouraged,
Have you ever had cloudy vision? You can see but not clearly, you can make out shapes and silhouettes but not a clear picture of who or what it is you’re looking at? Well, that’s what sex before marriage does. Let me explain. You have sex with someone based on how they make you feel or what state of mind you’re in. If it’s a one night stand thing, then you may have sex with the guy for several reasons, you’re horny, he’s fine, you’re lonely, or you feel that you have to do so just to keep him. Now, say he’s not so much of a creep in the beginning and the sex is good and all seems fine. Question, what is the basis for this relationship? Is it just sex? We as women have the tendency, just as guys, to “diversify our accounts”. We have a guy for sex, for emotional support, who makes us laugh, gives us money, makes us feel good, you name it there’s a guy for it! But what about when you have to find 1 guy? You can’t marry them all! So now, you’re stuck with cloudy vision. You can’t make up your mind, the sex guy is cool but he doesn’t give you what you need emotionally, or the emotional guy is cool but you’ve had sex with him as well and it wasn’t all that hot. So what do you do?
This used to be me! I wish I’d known that yep, God takes care of that too, and very well. I always say that I got lucky because I married the guy who fit my important needs and as an added bonus he’s everything I’ve ever wanted physically. God can and will take care of our desires as well! (Psalm 37:4) My husband’s strengths are my weaknesses and my strengths are his weaknesses. When you have sex with different guys, play the field and get wrapped up in so much mess, you can’t see straight, your vision is cloudy! Your heart is jacked up, your emotions are all over the place and that’s not God’s plan for us. Not to mention all of the soul ties you’ve created!
God created us so He knows what we need sexually and emotionally. We don’t have to go and do the work by trial and error (mostly error!), He will do it for us gladly. Jeremiah 29:11-13 For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. The key here is accepting the fact that God knows the plan, not us. This requires us to trust Him!!
See, He’s already declared that we’re taken care of but we have to have a relationship, not religion with Him and seek Him first! We don’t know who we are or what we want or what our purpose is without Him! The way I see it, my life was an absolute mess without God! I tried to do everything on my own and on my own terms and messed up a lot but God loves us so much that He restores us and picks us up out of our messes and turn them into the beautifulness (yep I created a word ;-)) that He intended for us to have anyway! So, if your vision is cloudy, ask God to give you clear vision and an undivided heart and He will show you the way!
Be blessed & encouraged,
I know it’s been forever but….I’m pregnant! I am due in about 7.5 weeks! I’m so ready LOL! This little fella is getting heavy! It seems that my little Caleb has consumed my life already and I haven’t really been able to write even though there’s lots on my mind. Hoping to write more once I get settled with my little one!
Now for red flags for dating, I saw this post on Facebook and thought it would be helpful. If you see any of the signs listed below, RUN FOR THE HILLS! (Oh and by the way, I’m always sharing info on the Savin’ it for Hubby Facebook page so it you haven’t joined us, you may do so by clicking “Like” via the Facebook box to the right :-))
Please ladies, don’t let your loneliness or desperation make you compromise your morals. Be patient and wait on the Lord. I know sometimes it easier said than done, but you’ll never regret trusting and waiting on him.
Be blessed and encouraged,
“A soul tie is the joining or knitting together of the bonds of a relationship. Godly soul ties occur
when like-minded believers are together in the Lord: friends, marriage partners, believers to
pastors, etc. Relationships that lack ‘God-centeredness’ can result in ungodly soul ties between
friends, parents and children, siblings, marriage partners, former romantic or sexual partners,
domineering authorities, etc. An unhealthy attachment with another can bring about a psychic
control that can adversely affect the life, e.g. a mother who refuses to relinquish her hold on her
children (tied to her apron strings), a person who refuses to release to the Lord the memory of an
old romantic flame (withdrawing into nostalgia in times of loneliness), a person who holds a grudge
or a judgment against another, someone who uses spiritual forces to control others (witchcraft),
Prayer for breaking ungodly soul ties:
“In the name of Jesus Christ I now renounce, break and loose myself from all demonic subjection and any
ungodly soul ties and unhealthy bondings with the following people: (break soul ties with each person that
comes to mind)”
“Lord, I ask you to do whatever it takes to break me of my tendencies to: obsessive preoccupations,
domination, control, passivity, apathy, unforgiveness, anger, blame, accusations, fear, intimidation and
disobedience in relationships.”
“Finally, in the name of Jesus, I declare every demonic hold in my life that has come as a result of
unhealthy soul ties null and void. Satan, I renounce you and your demons and command you to depart
from my spirit, soul and body!”
(courtesy of New Wine Christian Fellowshiphttp://www.newwineonline.com)
Be Mine is a one-day Christian conference open to all 6th – 12th grade girls focusing on their identity, self-confidence, and beauty. The goal is to have every girl experience an amazing day by helping them understand their worth, value, and give them affirmation of who they are. Our hope is to teach them lifelong lessons that will only guide them to make good choices for their future. The conference will be held on Saturday January 31,2015 at The Bridge Church in Lawrenceville, GA.
Yours truly will be speaking on purity of course! So, if you or someone you know would benefit from this conference or if you’d like to volunteer or sponsor a young lady who may not be able to pay to attend the conference, please follow the link below for more information!
Hope to see you there!
Be blessed & encouraged,
I pray that you all are well! I’m guest posting on my dear sister LaTanya Quinn’s blog for her ministry, LaTanya Quinn Ministries for a series called The Married and Single Series. You definitely want to check out the wisdom that has been shared thus far as well as the article written by yours truly – Attracting Adam. Praying you’re blessed and will draw closer to the lover of our souls!
Be blessed & encouraged,